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[ria]

well, the problem is not the pregnancy itself but the complicated situation i'm in..

u see, my boyfriend will be working in thailand by 1st week of oct. this means i have to deal w/ my pregnancy alone. to make things complicated, my family disowned me upon learning that i am pregnant. bf's family won't accept the baby as well.

the only solution i can see that might work best is if i give birth in thailand. isipin p lng n kung manganak ako dito s pinas, iwan ko ang new born s yaya na hindi ko kilala ang pagkatao, natatakot n po ako. ms kmpante po ksi kmi n kay bf maiwan c baby habang inanaayos nmin papeles etc.

i checked w/ thai embassy, pde lng ako, shempre as tourist. and one of the requirements is invitation letter from someone living/working in thailand. Hindi nman pde c bf dhil ppunta p lng sya dyan..

since wla po ako kilalang pinoy jan, makikisuyo po sna kung sino pde tumulong mgbigay ng invitation letter sa akin. medyo mlapit n dn ksi due date ni baby eh...

mraming slmat po & god bless!

[Woz]

since wla po ako kilalang pinoy jan, makikisuyo po sna kung sino pde tumulong mgbigay ng invitation letter sa akin. medyo mlapit n dn ksi due date ni baby eh...

mraming slmat po & god bless!

hope papayag ka sa plane na pasakayin ka kung malapit na due date... 

kung ako sayo, jan ka lang muna... 

[ria]

no offense taken demonic angel. i know it's one of the concerns.

that's why i inquired sa thai embassy. they told me that my being a pregnant is not a problem as long as i have the ff docs: application form, bank and employment certification, airline ticket and invitation letter (this is important because since i am pregnant, they want to be assured that there will be people taking care of me while i'm there).

i also checked out the airlines and they told that i just need to fill out their EMIS form, certified by my OB that i am fit to travel.

of course i'd be staying w/ bf but i also understand the embassy's rules. so i am hoping someone would lend their name as support sna..

actually, kung my mag-aalaga lang s magiging baby ko dito s pinas, hindi ko nman pipilitin umalis eh. i've exhausted all efforts dito kso wla talaga matakbuhan kundi c bf lng eh, aalis pa. kung mgkkasama sna kmi, my kramay ako...

pasensha na po, just trying to explore the options. if all else fails, at least i can say that i've tried...

[♥ AnnaV ♥]

there's no harm on trying Ria...just keep it up...


avoid stress too much makakasama sa baby yan... 

[Van Helsing]

well, the problem is not the pregnancy itself but the complicated situation i'm in..

u see, my boyfriend will be working in thailand by 1st week of oct. this means i have to deal w/ my pregnancy alone. to make things complicated, my family disowned me upon learning that i am pregnant. bf's family won't accept the baby as well.

the only solution i can see that might work best is if i give birth in thailand. isipin p lng n kung manganak ako dito s pinas, iwan ko ang new born s yaya na hindi ko kilala ang pagkatao, natatakot n po ako. ms kmpante po ksi kmi n kay bf maiwan c baby habang inanaayos nmin papeles etc.

i checked w/ thai embassy, pde lng ako, shempre as tourist. and one of the requirements is invitation letter from someone living/working in thailand. Hindi nman pde c bf dhil ppunta p lng sya dyan..

since wla po ako kilalang pinoy jan, makikisuyo po sna kung sino pde tumulong mgbigay ng invitation letter sa akin. medyo mlapit n dn ksi due date ni baby eh...

mraming slmat po & god bless!

hi ria,

i would suggest you and your bf reassess your situation. di madali manganak sa ibang bayan lalo na kung bago pa lang kayo. medyo mahaba ang period of adjustment unless sanay talaga kayo mag-travel. kung sinasabi mong mas mahirap kapag sa Pinas ka manganak, i think ganun din ang magiging kaso nyo kapag nandito kayo. unless yung company ng bf mo ay very considerate para bigyan sya ng paternal leave in his first few days of working in the kingdom.

bakit di na muna kayo magpakasal ng bf mo dyan sa Pinas, kahit simple ceremony lang, so that he can bring you here as a dependent soon para rin less hassle sa visa processing mo. also, don't take it too personal if your family disowns you. tampo-tampo lang yan siguro, at the end of the day, wala pa ring magulang na nakakatiis sa anak. at your worst situation, pamilya pa rin ang tutulong sa yo. pag lumabas na ang baby mo, i'm sure mag-aagawan pa ang byenan mo at magulang mo para alagaan ang bago nilang apo  

i'm not discouraging you from pursuing your plans dahil desisyon nyo pa ring magsyota ang susundin nyo. just take some time for you & your bf to think about it again.

good luck & God bless!

nagmamahal,

kuya van helsing

[Franz]

hi ria, tama ba ang pagkaka intindi ko sa post mo that you will give birth here in Thailand then you go back sa Pinas while your papers are being processed then maiiwan si baby sa bf mo dito sa Thailand?

Sorry I don't want to meddle with your personal affairs but I personally think that it is best that you give birth in the Philippines so you will have your family with you. I agree with Van Helsing, tampo tampo lang yon pero the moment dumating si Baby, i'm sure the parents of both parties will welcome the baby and consider him/her a blessing to the family.

Mas mahirap naman siguro na sobrang liit pa ni baby mo pero maiiwan sa BF mo dito sa Thailand. You have to consider papasok din sya sa trabaho so who will take care of the baby then?

Just my opinion...

[ynot (why not?)]

well, the problem is not the pregnancy itself but the complicated situation i'm in..

u see, my boyfriend will be working in thailand by 1st week of oct. this means i have to deal w/ my pregnancy alone. to make things complicated, my family disowned me upon learning that i am pregnant. bf's family won't accept the baby as well.

the only solution i can see that might work best is if i give birth in thailand. isipin p lng n kung manganak ako dito s pinas, iwan ko ang new born s yaya na hindi ko kilala ang pagkatao, natatakot n po ako. ms kmpante po ksi kmi n kay bf maiwan c baby habang inanaayos nmin papeles etc.

i checked w/ thai embassy, pde lng ako, shempre as tourist. and one of the requirements is invitation letter from someone living/working in thailand. Hindi nman pde c bf dhil ppunta p lng sya dyan..

since wla po ako kilalang pinoy jan, makikisuyo po sna kung sino pde tumulong mgbigay ng invitation letter sa akin. medyo mlapit n dn ksi due date ni baby eh...

mraming slmat po & god bless!

hi ria,

i would suggest you and your bf reassess your situation. di madali manganak sa ibang bayan lalo na kung bago pa lang kayo. medyo mahaba ang period of adjustment unless sanay talaga kayo mag-travel. kung sinasabi mong mas mahirap kapag sa Pinas ka manganak, i think ganun din ang magiging kaso nyo kapag nandito kayo. unless yung company ng bf mo ay very considerate para bigyan sya ng paternal leave in his first few days of working in the kingdom.

bakit di na muna kayo magpakasal ng bf mo dyan sa Pinas, kahit simple ceremony lang, so that he can bring you here as a dependent soon para rin less hassle sa visa processing mo. also, don't take it too personal if your family disowns you. tampo-tampo lang yan siguro, at the end of the day, wala pa ring magulang na nakakatiis sa anak. at your worst situation, pamilya pa rin ang tutulong sa yo. pag lumabas na ang baby mo, i'm sure mag-aagawan pa ang byenan mo at magulang mo para alagaan ang bago nilang apo  

i'm not discouraging you from pursuing your plans dahil desisyon nyo pa ring magsyota ang susundin nyo. just take some time for you & your bf to think about it again.

good luck & God bless!

nagmamahal,

kuya van helsing

agree ako sa iyo pareng kuya van....we have the same thoughts....

Ria....simple kasal sa pinas may help you to ease your document preparation sa pag-stay mo...especially if your boyfriend is also legally enter the kingdom...i mean, kung provided ng company ang visa ng bf mo, kapag kasal ka na sa kanya, you and your baby will be considered as his legal dependents and the company may/will/should/must support you....

+ karma sa pareng kuya van.....

[Madam H]

Agree din ako kay kuya Van, Ria.

Kung mahirap maghanap at magtrust sa taong mag-aalaga sa anak mo sa Pinas, the least consolation is -  Pinoy pa rin ang mag-aalaga sa baby mo. Dito, since your bf will have to go to work, then sa yaya maiiwan ang baby (choice is between Thai and Burmese). Wala akong alam sa mga Burmse na yaya, pero meron kaming kaibigan before na tagarito ang yaya ng baby nila. Iniwan sa front desk ng apartment ang baby, at umalis ng walang paalam ang yaya. Yung friend namin, tagarito pa naman ang kanyang wife, pero, ganoon ang nangyari. How much more kaya kung Pino kayong 2 ni bf?

'Hope you will find the best solution for your baby.