Can we use the H. Kho scandal as a gauge for the sexual attitudes of our youth?

[steven21]

Doesn't the recent Hayden Kho scandal give out an impression that our youth today have the wrong sexual values?  Though young people do tend to explore their sexuality and get fascinated by it, and that access to sensitive content such as amateur porn reviews is made as easy as getting a personal statement for MBA or an MBA admission essay through the Internet, these are not excuses for disregarding the sexual education of our youth.  Shouldn't parents and teachers be more active in educating young people that sex is not just an act done for pleasure or conquest, and that it entails respect and a meaningful relationship between two people?

[iSDa(GO PORTAL)]

baka trigger.

the video scandal triggered our inner demons...

most young people who weren't supposed to view porno as enticing until after college graduation got an early dose of what they fantasize will be in store for them.

shall we say a premature exposure.

peace myfantasy!

[SilverSurfer]

I agree with Steven21 that sex should be treated with respect and meaningful relationship between 2 people. I believe  parents and if possible, educators start early and not in college. I am now teaching my 5 yr old son on the do's and don'ts of when you are with the opposite sex. No one told me about this until I got sucked up in maliciousness and sexual perversion.

I do not see the Hayden Kho scandal vdo acting as a gauge coz both of them are already old enough to know what is right and wrong. Plus I do not like to promote 'Voyeurism' and 'Illegal Drugs' to boost sexual activities.

 
Just my opinon....

[Ms Demi Noor]

Scandals of this nature have been happening in the past. The only difference is that the scandals have found their way into modern means of dissemination - i.e. the Internet.

People are voyeuristic in nature. Kaya marami dyang mga Uzi (uzisero) na nag-raraber-neck kapag may accidente.  Wow! Kita ang buto (ng pakwan).

Videotaping the act was premeditated. Was it done with mutual concent? If the girl did not know that she was being videotaped - then she has been wronged.  But what was she doing with Hayden anyway?  Was it consensual or was it paid sex? Was there some other motive - like trying to boost the girl's rating? Was it done to squeeze money out of Hayden? Is is an attempt to ruin Hayden? So many questions remain to be answered.

We are missing something here and I think it is bigger than what we are led to believe.

The youth of today is exposed to so much more pornography - which is freely available on the Internet.  Mobile phone technology has also helped the youth gain access to smut. Some even share lewd photos of themselves. Some of these photos are shared over the Internet. Some of them probably already have learned their lesson. Many more will have to learn theirs. Let us hope that incidents like this make the youth aware of what can happen.

Gigabaan na sila - kay mga dautan!  They got what they deserved because they were misbehaving.

Doesn't the recent Hayden Kho scandal give out an impression that our youth today have the wrong sexual values?  Though young people do tend to explore their sexuality and get fascinated by it, and that access to sensitive content such as amateur porn reviews is made as easy as getting a personal statement for MBA or an MBA admission essay through the Internet, these are not excuses for disregarding the sexual education of our youth.  Shouldn't parents and teachers be more active in educating young people that sex is not just an act done for pleasure or conquest, and that it entails respect and a meaningful relationship between two people?