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« Reply #20 on: July 08, 2007, 10:40:17 PM »

candy2nd wag kang mag alala ipakikilala ko na lang sa u ang friend ko si LD Ramos ldr din ang dating nun.hehe

 - at sino naman ang LD Ramos na yon??? Iba-blind date mo ako?? haha! grabe!


uyyy, mukhang may potential for growth ang love lives. Dito lang sa SP!

Mama hedz tama ka lovelife na lang ang may potential growth kay eldie....kilala mo naman yun and candy2nd magaling din na singer tong si pareng LDramos./mukhang madaragdagan yun thread ng soulmate lol


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« Reply #21 on: July 09, 2007, 03:22:14 AM »

huhhuhhu! Cry buti pa kayo may LDR ako wla...bwahahaha....JOKE! kaya pala may "L" ako sa noo' ko means..._ _ _ _ _ hehhehehe
saya nmin sa rachaburi but sad about the news...nanay magpagaling ka ha...ulitin nmin ang hangout sa ratchaburi para sau.k god bless sa lahat....
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« Reply #22 on: July 09, 2007, 06:30:22 AM »

Sa tingin ko mas mataas ang prone ng mga magsyota palang kesa sa magasawa (na may anak) na magkahiwalay. Based on the statistics sa POEA (PDOS-Seminar)

Figures are:
magsyota - 99% na magkakahiwalay
magasawa - 98% na hindi man magkahiwalay, broken family at kung anu-anong problemang pamilya
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« Reply #23 on: July 10, 2007, 01:37:29 AM »

huhhuhhu! Cry buti pa kayo may LDR ako wla...bwahahaha....JOKE! kaya pala may "L" ako sa noo' ko means..._ _ _ _ _ hehhehehe
saya nmin sa rachaburi but sad about the news...nanay magpagaling ka ha...ulitin nmin ang hangout sa ratchaburi para sau.k god bless sa lahat....

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« Reply #24 on: July 10, 2007, 02:50:29 AM »

pre j/mama hedz;

sabi ni pareng LD dadating daw sya dyan end of this month isama nyo daw sya sa shamrock,ipakilala nyo daw sa singer dun.......
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« Reply #25 on: July 10, 2007, 09:15:38 AM »

Si LD ang darating dito. Sa kanya tayo papabili ng Payless na noodles. Wink
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« Reply #26 on: July 10, 2007, 09:46:32 AM »

Si LD ang darating dito. Sa kanya tayo papabili ng Payless na noodles. Wink

wala ng iba si eldie,ano ba gusto mo tol beef or chicken??kamusta inaanak ko ano ba nangyari?
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« Reply #27 on: July 10, 2007, 10:23:14 AM »

Pre, tanongin ko muna si Candy2nd. Payless Pancit Canton daw pre. Kahit ilan daw ang madadala ni Pareng LD dito na lang niya bayaran.
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« Reply #28 on: July 10, 2007, 01:37:02 PM »


A Long distance relationship could work but for how long can you keep up with it? not beeing with the person that you love the most in this world can be a real torture and I talk from my own experiance.

On the end of the day you both want to be togheter right?

I will never do it again I been through hell It wasn't for long 3 months but it felt like 3 years. But finally I'm getting married next month with my girl our story is too long to write down here but all I can say is that we love eachoter much and if we want to be togheter we both have to make secrifices. My fiance is willing to relocate to Thailand if she have to or else I will relocate to Manila I will do whatever it takes to be with her and she is willing to do the same but it have to come from both sides if the love is real and you are ment to be for eachoter then the puzzle should fall right in its place cause real love is un stop able.

But from my experiance I would highly recommend anyone not to start with a long distance relationship unless you are sure there is a way to be togheter.

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« Reply #29 on: July 10, 2007, 03:58:03 PM »

It takes so much strength, courage, patience, energy, and so much more to keep a long distance relationship alive.

Gio, if you don't mind my asking, and if it's not too much trouble on your part, I'd like to ask you to write your story and we'll publish it here in Siam Pinoy. It will appear, of course, on our front page, not in the forum. I know so many couples, married or otherwise, interracial or not, who are or were in situations like this. Some of them were able to get through it unscathed, but others were not so lucky.

You never know how many lives and how many relationships could benefit from hearing your story, and from knowing the challenges you've been through and the joys of finally coming to this part of your relationship - you are ready to tie the knot with that special someone.

In behalf of Siam Pinoy, we are hoping you would say "YES!"

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« Reply #30 on: July 12, 2007, 04:05:30 AM »

pre j/mama hedz;

sabi ni pareng LD dadating daw sya dyan end of this month isama nyo daw sya sa shamrock,ipakilala nyo daw sa singer dun.......

Sige, ipakilala niyo sakin si LD... pero dapat may passport siyang dala... Payless Pancit Canton, hahaha! (joke lang.. pero medyo serious!) hahaha!
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« Reply #31 on: July 12, 2007, 04:37:26 AM »

pre j/mama hedz;

sabi ni pareng LD dadating daw sya dyan end of this month isama nyo daw sya sa shamrock,ipakilala nyo daw sa singer dun.......

Sige, ipakilala niyo sakin si LD... pero dapat may passport siyang dala... Payless Pancit Canton, hahaha! (joke lang.. pero medyo serious!) hahaha!


ano daw flavor?Huh?
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« Reply #32 on: July 12, 2007, 04:50:23 AM »

Hahaha!... basta with calamansi!... kakatuwa naman! Thanks! don't worry... babayaran ko naman eh Grin
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« Reply #33 on: July 12, 2007, 05:05:28 AM »

When my (ex)BF left me for another girl... I was so devastated and post a question sa Ask Yahoo!... I was so overwhelmed of the replies I got from people around the world. I wanna share with you, guys what they thought about it... it's about LDR.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AhNt77fJZZDTV.wYMUF0WlgE1vAI?qid=20070205035814AA7ivTP

Maybe you'll get some answers too if you're in the same situation.

For me... LDR doesn't work Sad... but for some, who knows..?

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« Reply #34 on: July 12, 2007, 05:38:33 AM »

nice one Candy2nd..well people really do have different views and beliefs about LDR, and basically it just really boils down on the two people involved. and i believe just like any relationship LDR or not, love alone is not enough, there should always be trust.. Wink
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« Reply #35 on: July 12, 2007, 09:58:55 PM »


Hi Madam thanks for your reaction I write my story on your request.

A longdistance relationship

I met with my fiance in Bangkok on a Saturday evening she was on her holiday in Thailand and she was gonna fly back to Manila on that coming Monday afternoon. We just met eachoter for two days and she left me already that was the beginning of our relationship at the time I diddn't really thought about the fact that I would miss her that much (Like crazy). We stayed in touch by phone and email a few days after she left she tolled me that she missed me so much and we talked about all the things we did togheter in Bangkok.

Thinking about all the things we did all the memories made me very deppressed and I really started to miss her I really wanted to see her again. During the following month we stayed in touch by email and phone but that made it only harder for the both of us. I couldn't deal with this long distance thing it was too hard for me I asked her to come back to Bangkok but she couldn't right away and couldn't tell me when. We both started to lose it I complained then she complained it was all because we were not strong enough I was weak and other times she was weak we were making it very hard and difficult for eachoter.

I felt that I was going to lose her because of the distance between us and the difficulties we were going through (The difficulties everybody goes through in a long distance relationship) She tolled me to forget her and focus on my job and my future. I tolled her that I couldn't do that and that I can't stop thinking about her I couldn't focus on my work in meetings I was simply not interested to hear anything or talk about other things my mind was set and in Manila.

The only time I ever felt something like this for a girl was in highschool nearly twenty years ago but she insisted me to move on with my life and try to forget her. I couldn't believe that she was saying that I thought we was cool and that she loved me which she did but she couldn't deal with it anymore. We got into a big argument and feight over the phone and by email but after our argument she called me three times three times I hung up on her I was very angry at her. But I knew that if I would not call her back that I would probably never ever hear and see her again. I was very angry at her but I still loved her so much I hated this feeling I diddn't know what to do with her I couldn't let her go. I called her back and tolled her that I still love her and that she makes me crazy. Then she sad, if you really love me you come to Manila tomorrow, I tolled her that I couldn't do that and that she should get that out of her head but guess what, The next day in the afternoon I flew from Bangkok to Manila I was real happy even though I stayed for only three days in Manila I was very happy to see her again. But after three days I had to leave her again, back to Bangkok that feeling I cant really discribe its kinda like someone sticks a knife in your heart and after that ribs your heart out.

Anyway there we went again same situation again I was in Bangkok she in Manila talking by phone and email again. But she knew I really loved her and there was hope again she decided to work abroad for four months so that we could start a future togheter after she returned. She left Philippines to work abroad we stayed in touch as usual. One night on the phone I tolled her that I wanted to marry her and have children and become a family with her. But I was tired of this long distance relation. The following day she quit her job and flew back to the Philippines stayed one night in Manila and flew directly to Bangkok airport. I was the happiest man on the planet and couldn't believe that she was in Bangkok specially for me. after a month she went back to Philippines to see her family which she haven't seen for three months because of her work before abroad. Right now we are waiting for the requiered documents that we need for our marrige she will come back to Bangkok in two weeks then we will fly togheter to Phil and get married in her Hometown. I have a job offer in Manila therefore I can relocate to the Philippines else we can live in Bangkok we are still thinking about this.

I feel blessed and I still can't believe that all this is really happening to me I'm getting married with the girl that I love so much and she loves me back..

Maybe to some of you guys I sound like a sissy but I dont care cause I'm keeping it real here in the Pinoy forum my love for this Pinay girl is real 4 real real....

For all the people that are in a long distance relationship right now, keep it up! try to stay strong because real love is unbeatable.........

For those people who are thinking of starting a long distance relationship.. Think again if thats really what you want and if there is hope and a future for the both of you cause this long distance thing can eighter make you or brake you, whatever you deside I wish everyone good luck and happiness good luck to all...

Gio





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« Reply #36 on: July 13, 2007, 03:29:48 AM »

quote on gio:


WAY TO GO PLAYER! CONGRATS!!!
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« Reply #37 on: July 13, 2007, 03:44:05 AM »

nice story you got there Gio.  Congrats!! you just proved that love conquers all, no distance could take away what true love two people have...wishing u d best!! thanks for sharing your story. 
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« Reply #38 on: July 13, 2007, 03:53:06 AM »

Thanks for sharing your love story, Gio. I dunno why, but naiyak ako.
This is the reason why I don't wanna watch love story movies Sad

I wish you both all the best. All the LOVE and HAPPINESS in this world.

Congratulations and Best Wishes!

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« Reply #39 on: July 13, 2007, 04:09:34 AM »

Candy2nd, me is sad to know dat indi nag work yong LDR mo sa pinas.  Sad

buti na lang you enjoy your LDR mo dito sa BKK.
LDR = Lifetime Discount Relationship   Grin

don't worry mabait n sweet naman kami  Wink

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